Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Boundless Rope Experience w/ Class on Rope to Enhance Connection and Intimacy (beginner friendly) Please join us for the Boundless Rope Experience (“BRE”) Schedule: Doors Open: 3pm Class: 3:30-4:30pm Meet & Greet Activity: 4:30-5:30pm Tie & Lab: 5:30-6:30pm Class Description: Rope for Connection and Intimacy Celebrate Valentine’s Day with a fun and playful class on building […]