Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Whats better than games? Games with your PJs on. Wear your favorite pajamas… or your least favorite… or none at all.   Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun. General […]

  Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance Party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. This party is open to all respectful humans. Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff If a clown gives you head is it called Big Top? There will be pop […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Did you spend Valentine’s Day alone? Or wanting more folks in your life? Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look […]

Was your valentine a bowl of Ben & Jerrys? Or maybe you celebrated with one of your partners but want to celebrate with another? Wear something romantic, or sexy, or in matching outfits with your boo. Of course fetish, all black, and/or clean and pressed is welcome, but dressing up makes you happy and confident […]

Presented by Hellhound Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary’s Trans kink party – Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]