Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Portland Leather Alliance

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Presented by Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a […]

🌸 Join Us for the Kinky Queer, ENM Meet and Greet: May Flowers Edition! 🌸 Date: Friday, May 15 Time: 6 to 8 PM Location: Sanctuary (before the fun kicks off with Naked Karaoke!) Spring is in full bloom, and so is the perfect opportunity to connect and celebrate! 🌼 Whether you’re a familiar face or a newcomer, this event […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]