Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Presented by Queerky Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary’s Trans kink party – Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]

If you’re looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy! Doors open at 630! First visit the lanyard station! Pick out a color coded lanyard to show others your Comfort level: 💚Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate 💛Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker.   Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely.   $10 entry […]

PORTLAND! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol’ kooky creatures. Creature Feature is here! Throw down with your friends and get frisky 🧸🐩🐾 This is an animal / creature-themed kink night, so please make an effort to dress to match the theme. This months special theme is TBA.. Featuring: Padded floor area, chewy toys, […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]