Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

If you’re looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy! Doors open at 630! First visit the lanyard station! Pick out a color coded lanyard to show others your Comfort level: 💚Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate 💛Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) […]

Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]

PORTLAND! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol’ kooky creatures. Creature Feature is here! Throw down with your friends and get frisky 🧸🐩🐾 This is an animal / creature-themed kink night, so please make an effort to dress to match the theme. This months special theme is TBA.. Featuring: Padded floor area, chewy toys, […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Yes Coach M4M-themed events are open to all.  Deets TBA

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]