Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Every October, many of us play a game where we try to figure out whether the cool outfit/costume/look that someone we see is wearing is a costume, or just that they are a cool Portland human with a look. So come to Jiffy Kink this month with your signature ‘over-the-top’ look or a Halloween costume. […]

Topics TBA   Come to the Foundations For Newcomers class series and have all your questions answered. You just may leave with some hands on instruction, practice and the confidence to do the thing! Anyone may attend however this monthly series of classes is designed with the new person to kink and community in mind. […]

Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info!  Required dress code: black  Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]

Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass!   $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $20/22 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.

Kink Events & Education by Kandy is proud to present: Fruit Strip! An all body types 100% inclusive and diverse stripping event and showcase, with open sign ups!! Slots are limited! In the interest of inclusivity, I will be opening signups at 6pm on Wednesday the 3rd, and 10 available slots will go to the […]

Whats better than games? Games with your PJs on. Wear your favorite pajamas… or your least favorite… or none at all.   Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun. General […]