Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

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Speed Spanking

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🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Naked Karaoke

August 14, 2026 at - August 15, 2026 at recur-darkcalendar-multiday-dark
Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Jiffy Kink: Speed Date

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Presented by Mx Bliss   Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you’re headed out to a […]

Jiffy Kink: Apocalypse

August 15, 2026 at - August 16, 2026 at calendar-multiday-dark
“It’s the end of the world as we know it. And I’m gonna beat someone’s ass.” That’s how the lyrics go, right? August is apocalypse night at Jiffy Kink. Dress up in your post-apocalyptic finest. Mad Max, Zombies, Dune? What fine duds will you wear when it all falls apart? I hope it’s sexy!!! This […]

BDSM 101: Foundations

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Topics TBA   Come to the Foundations For Newcomers class series and have all your questions answered. You just may leave with some hands on instruction, practice and the confidence to do the thing! Anyone may attend however this monthly series of classes is designed with the new person to kink and community in mind. […]

Fusion Dance: The Summoning

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Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info!  Required dress code: black  Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]

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