Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Alaska Moon Kat Fempower is the way the world should be, a celebration of all things fem — dominant, creative, radiant, kinky, and free. Fempower is about providing a safe place, without the influence of the Patriarchy or male-dominated sexuality, to really explore what it means to be a sexually empowered […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by the spirit of Buckmaster, the Vampire Queen of the Underworld 🪩 Eat your heart out! 💔 #VampireOrgy #BloodyValentine @pdxsanctuary – True love never dies 💔 Celebrate undying love & undead lovers with a special Bloody Valentine edition of the cult classic party : Vampire 0rgy. 🔮#VampireOrgy is a fetish / filth / freak […]

Yes Coach M4M-themed events are open to all.  Deets TBA

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary’s monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women’s spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world.   We are a unique […]