Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Soft, Fluffy, Fuzzy… warm and cozy. Kink doesn’t have to be rough…. It can be soft too Kandy Goddess is proud to announce another event dedicated to the subtle art of sensation This night isn’t about hard slaps or loud screams, but delicate hands, and soft whimpers of ecstasy. We start off the evening with […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

Sensual Sexploration with Amory Jane Join Amory Jane for a hands-on presentation that dives into the world of Sensation Play! Discover how to heighten arousal and spark your sexual imagination with activities — both vanilla and kinky — that are designed to stimulate ALL the senses. Explore intentional touch, sensual feeding, somatics, temperature play, aromatic […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]