Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Laughter is the best foreplay. Portland’s longest-running & filthiest monthly comedy showcase! Hosted by Amanda Lynn Deal 21+, $10 Two-drink minimum Featuring TBA   All door sales go to the comedians. Doors at 7 PM, show at 8 PM Please show the performers and those around you proper courtesy and do not heckle or chat […]

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

Topics TBA   Come to the Foundations For Newcomers class series and have all your questions answered. You just may leave with some hands on instruction, practice and the confidence to do the thing! Anyone may attend however this monthly series of classes is designed with the new person to kink and community in mind. […]

Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info!  Required dress code: black  Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]